I really wanted to start doing these on my blog at some point, I never knew when but since I've ran out of outfits I thought why not today, and because I love reading them and I thought it might help some people.
I'm not a professional at this so these are just things that help me and I thought why not share :D.
1. STOP COMPARING. This is probably the most heard advice anyone has ever gotten but it's honestly one of the best. If you're having a crappy day and you start scrolling on Instagram, looking at filtered pictures and perfected camera angles of others to compare yourself to - how fair is it? Looking at someone else and thinking "why don't I look like that?" will get you nowhere. The sooner you accept that there are people who will look 10x better than you the better. Yeah she's pretty that's great, that's her, she does her really well. Learn to be the best version of YOURSELF and soon enough, you'll feel better about yourself regardless of what her body/hair looks like.
2. DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Ask yourself. What don't I like? Can I change it? No? then accept it. The quicker you understand that it's never gonna change so there's no point in downing yourself because you aren't gonna wake up one morning and its suddenly how you like it the better. You just have to change your mindset. And if you can change it - then figure something out; you don't like your hair - find a style that makes you feel good about yourself and test it out. Don't like the way you dress? Look for some inspiration and start incorporating it into your own wardrobe. I could say the same thing about everything else but obviously don't take things to an extreme especially in situations where you're dealing with weight. If you aren't happy with your body, go to the gym and tone up, but don't go overboard, starting creating the version of yourself that you want to be; because you're in control.
3. TRY TO BETTER YOURSELF. I find that on days that I feel really shitty I dress shitty too which is really bad because it just adds to the list of things to hate about myself. If you feel crappy when you wake up in the morning - try a little harder then you won't have any reasons to down yourself, the more you tried, the better you feel. I always forget this then I end up spending the day with my head down and wishing I was under my duvet or that I wore something different. Wear something that makes you feel nicer, or take a little longer doing your hair or your face.
4. DON'T LISTEN TO EVERYONE ELSE- If you care too much about what other people think you will drive yourself insane. If you spend too much time thinking "Are they laughing at me?" then you're gonna have a really hard time being happy with yourself. Regardless of what people think of you, you're in control of how you react to it, you can let it affect you or you can brush it off and move on with life and focus on yourself.
5. BAN THE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS. As soon as you think something bad about yourself, change thoughts. Or if that's too hard, for every negative think up a positive. If you feel bad, there's no point in drowning yourself in negative thoughts as it will make you feel even worse, how will you ever feel better if all you do is highlight whats wrong?
6. B WHO U WANNA B. I always think of what I wanna look like, if you want to be a certain type of person, nothing's stopping you from being that person. Obviously in no means be this fake person, but be the dream version of yourself.
- I hope this helped anyone who needed an extra boost. :) And if there's anything else you guys want me to talk about then don't be afraid to ask.
Be sure to check out my latest video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iVRfT75ZBo&list=UUz-lwwrbHF_iUxlWwNetyxw
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